Best Face Forward - How to add a killer photo to
your
online personal ad.
I read this amazing statistic recently - 24.3% of singles
have used or are
currently using online dating services
or personals to meet someone. Whoa.
Right now there
are 15 major subscription-based online matchmaking
sites,
as
well as thousands of smaller, more specialized
ones. Many of my friends
are giving it a shot, and the
last three weddings that I attended were for
couples
who had met online.
Since online dating is becoming a viable way to meet
someone, why not give
it a try? How it works: You
join up (Date.com was my choice), and you
create
a
bio, which consists of answering a series of questions.
But what you
might
not know is that adding a photo to
your ad can really make a difference. I
read somewhere
that you have 12 times more of a chance of getting replies
with a photo.
You'll have a few options to consider. Mall glamour
shot or that talented
friend with digital camera? I say
choose the friend. If you already have a
great photo
of yourself, get it scanned at a local copier shop, and
easily
upload the image onto your computer. Date.com
will alter and resize images
for you.
A few important details: Never have your picture taken
if you aren't in a
really great mood, because it always
shows. A good photographer, haircut
and
lighting can
downplay features that otherwise might make you feel
self-conscious. Take as many as possible so you have
more choices - rest
assured, even supermodel shoots
work this way. When deciding, ask friends
of
the
opposite sex which shots they find most appealing. A
focus test, if
you
will. If you are a woman, then only ask
your male friends which photos
show
you off to your best
advantage. This works like a charm.
Now that you have a better idea of what you can do to
rev up your social
life, get out there and give Date.com
a try. Have fun!
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